Help the family have time either collectively or individually with the person if they wish. Many people benefit from reconciling any differences they have before death. Others express their appreciation for a lifetime of love. 

This is an important time for children to say their goodbyes as well but they shouldn’t be forced to see the dying person if they don’t want to.

Even after the death has occurred, or when someone arrives after the death, people may wish to say a few words over the body.